Living proof that ‘people still do this’

(Pictured: Paul Wagner pounds away in Fort Nisqually’s blacksmith shop at Point Defiance Park in Tacoma).

From the field in the center of the Fort Nisqually Living History Museum at Tacoma’s Point Defiance Park, the blacksmith shop could be one of a number of buildings that line the perimeter. Get closer, however, and the sounds are unmistakable. There’s the deep, rattling breath of the forge bellows and high ring of a well-struck hammer blow. 

On this day, Master Blacksmith Paul Wagner is working with an apprentice to guide him through the final steps in making his first functional tool: a pair of scrolling pliers. The pliers are used for making fine adjustments like smoothing out the curves on the twisting candle holders occasionally sold in the fort gift shop. 

When a family walks in, Wagner steps away and talks to them about the activity and shows off an example of the final product and how it will work. The kids hover excitedly near a pedal-operated grinder being used to shape a bolt that will hold the plier handles together, while dad asks about the comparison between period and modern tools. 

“We always have a wide variety of people coming through,” said Wagner. “Some are really interested in the details and have lots of questions or maybe know something about blacksmithing themselves. Others have no idea that people still do this. They’ve only read about it in a book or saw it in a video game and are gobsmacked to see it actually happening.” 

Wagner started blacksmithing in the late 1990s but joined the fort as a volunteer in 2018 after attending its annual Brigade Encampment. 

“I was already interested in the fur trade era of history, especially the early stories of colonization by the Russians, British, and French,” he said. “I came out to the Brigade Encampment and connected with some people, realized what a great organization it was, and did the volunteer orientation after that. Bringing the historical reenactment together with my blacksmithing seemed like the perfect fit.” 

Since then, Wagner has volunteered over 2,200 hours, becoming the fort’s master blacksmith and establishing the apprenticeship program. As Wagner’s students move from apprentice to journeyman they can begin to work at the forge unsupervised and help expand volunteer coverage in the shop. 

“It’s not a blacksmithing school,” says Wagner. As much as he would love to do more teaching, the limitations of a shop set in 1855 aren’t conducive to teaching someone without prior experience. “I’m taking people who already have some shop skills and are interested in volunteering at the fort because of the history, then introducing blacksmithing on top of that. History and the context of the fort have to come first.” 

One of the biggest differences, and a first lesson for many apprentices, is becoming familiar with the fort’s coal forge.  

“Fire is one of your main tools,” said Wagner. “There’s a learning curve. Figuring out how to place something in the fire so that the part you’re working on heats and the part you need to handle doesn’t. You have to understand how a fire burns and has different zones depending on structure and airflow,” he continued. “Knowing how to produce it and being able to create the tools that make fire, it’s all wrapped up in blacksmithing. 

The tools Wagner is referring to are steel fire strikers which they use with a piece of flint to light the forge each day. He’s lost count of how many hundreds he and his apprentices have made over the years, along with coat hooks, s-hooks for hanging, and the previously mentioned candle holders. 

“Getting the hammer skills down and building muscle memory. The repetition and getting that into your body is a big part of blacksmithing,” said Wagner. “The gift shop is great for that because there’s an unending demand for those things.” 

Once they have the basics down, Wagner also teaches them to innovate and problem solve using the materials and skills they’ve developed. 

“Blacksmiths make a lot of their own tools, and that’s something I emphasize heavily with the people I teach,” he said. “I want my apprentices to know how to make a tool and feel comfortable with it. If they’re working on something and don’t have the tool they want, they should have the ability and knowledge to make it.” 

Wagner and his team have made tools for just about every group in the fort including the wood and leatherworkers, tinsmiths, and the kitchen.  

“I like making things that people interact with on a regular basis,” Wagner said. “I replaced a latch on a gate at the back of the clerk’s house. It was a cheap one from the hardware store that failed. My replacement was basic, but everyone uses it.  

“When someone touches a piece and it works so well and feels right in their hand, and it just feels like the thing that belongs here,” he continued. “That’s what I want.” 

These everyday items and other small touches around the fort have been some of his favorite projects.  

“Historically blacksmiths were really pivotal in a community,” he said. “That’s the way it’s been for thousands of years and when we can do a repair, it feels like the way it would have been done back in the day.” 

Wagner retired from his job as a wildlife ecologist last spring and is looking forward to spending more time on blacksmithing  at the fort and at his home smithy, where he also does woodworking.  

“I’m leaning hard into the ‘do stuff by hand’ things these days,” he said with a laugh. “I never want to take another Zoom call again.” 

Source: Metro Parks Tacoma

Inflation has consumers focusing on priorities

There’s a lot of wallet-watching these days.

As Americans continue to navigate inflation, 76 percent report cutting back on spending, up from 67 percent in 2024, according to the second annual Wells Fargo Money Study.

The majority of Americans also say they are making tough financial choices to navigate their lives, including delaying plans with hefty price tags such as travel, homeownership, education, marriage and retirement.

“There is a clear social narrative surrounding the question: ‘Do I, and will I, have enough?’ The fact that these questions are being asked is positive because we know the earlier people focus on their money behaviors, the more time they have to course-correct to achieve their goals,” said Michael Liersch, head of advice and planning at Wells Fargo.

An overwhelming 90 percent of those surveyed responded that they feel “sticker shock” in one or more areas of common spending, including eating out, attending a concert, buying a bottle of water, or downloading a video game. And they say actual costs are between 55 percent and 200 percent higher than what they expect.

“Spending is one of the most important factors to staying on track,” said Liersch. “I would encourage people to align their spending with what matters most to them.”

Nearly all Americans (94 percent) acknowledge they want to do just that: Align money choices with their values. And 86% want to be more intentional and thoughtful about spending.

According to Liersch, people “aren’t just winging it. They’re being extraordinarily introspective as they navigate their financial priorities.”

Trying not to be judged over money

Money can be an emotional topic, inciting envy, anxiety, and secretiveness. While 87 percent of the survey participants say it makes no difference to them how much money another person has, 56 percent keep how much they have secret, and 32 percent of them say it’s because they’re trying to avoid people judging them.

Americans also spend time thinking about how much money other people have – and wishing they could have more themselves. Forty-seven percent responded they often feel envious of how much money other people have, 37 percent admit to obsessing about getting rich, 34 percent admire social-media millionaires, and 23 percent admit to sometimes overspending just to keep up with people around them.

People “appear comfortable with other people being authentic about their financial situation, which is encouraging,” Liersch said. “So now it’s time to overcome self-judgment and reset the frame of reference from others to one’s own personal benchmark.”

Eighty-six percent of respondents say they have a clear picture of what they want their money to do for them. And the vast majority are optimistic about how to do it—87 percent say now is a good time to save, and 65 percent say now is a good time to invest. Yet 61 percent say they need a mental reset and are being held back by such factors as difficulty changing habits, lack of financial knowledge, and other financial responsibilities.

To overcome these challenges, consumers are seeking more financial advice year over year. Last year, 24 percent said they were seeking more advice from others; this year it’s 36 percent. Looking across generations, the desire for more advice is higher among teens (54 percent), gen Z adults (61 percent), and millennials (46 percent).

At a time when many are feeling cash-strapped, learning new ways to think about and manage money can help you take control of your financial future, Liersch noted.

The full Wells Fargo report is at sites.wf.com/wfmoneystudy-2025

Source: StatePoint Media

By Theresa Power-Drutis

The 2024 Annual Homelessness Assessment Report (AHAR) to Congress (2024 Point-in-Time, or PIT, report) indicates the highest recorded levels of homelessness in the U.S., with 771,480 individuals nationally experiencing homelessness on a single night. Contributing factors include an affordable-housing crisis, inflation, systemic racism, and the cessation of COVID-era support programs. Key findings include:

  • Homelessness in families with children rose by 39 percent from 2023, with nearly 150,000 children affected.
  • Over 152,000 individuals reported chronic patterns of homelessness, a 27 percent increase since 2007, with 65 percent living in unsheltered locations. ·
  • Military veterans are the only group showing a decline, with an 8 percent reduction since 2023 and a 55 percent drop since 2009 due to sustained funding.
  • One in five people experiencing homelessness was 55 or older; nearly half were living in unsheltered conditions.
  • People who identify as Black, African American, or African accounted for 32 percent of homelessness, despite being 12 percent of the population.
  • Emergency shelter beds increased by 18 percent, while transitional housing declined. Permanent-housing programs expanded modestly, reflecting targeted investments but not fully meeting demand.

The report underscores systemic challenges and limited success in addressing homelessness on a national level. County-level reports reflect similar challenges. (Editor’s note: The Pierce County 2025 homeless Point-in-Time count was conducted on Jan. 30-31. The results hadn’t been announced as of March 11. For the county’s 2024 count, results included a 23 percent increase in overall homelessness and a slight decrease in the number of people using specialized services for the homeless, according to the county’s Human Services Department.

“The annual PIT counts often mobilize large numbers of volunteers and serve to educate communities about homelessness. However, despite all the community effort and goodwill that goes into them, and due to no fault of the professionals and volunteers who carry them out, the counts are severely flawed,” said officials of the National Law Center on Homelessness and Poverty. Despite the flaws detailed in the National Law Center report, “Don’t Count On It,” the PIT is a critical requirement for each county’s federal funding to address homelessness. To learn more, view Pierce County’s PIT results from previous years or sign up to volunteer at piercecountywa.gov.

Theresa Power-Drutts is a director of League of Women Voters of Tacoma-Pierce County. She wrote this article for the organization’s January newsletter.

Love at any age

(Pictured: For older adults, the dating scene has opportunities and challenges.)

By Christina Healy

A record 25.9 million seniors are single and ready to mingle in America, up almost 6 million from a decade ago, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Some prefer to stay single, but enough seek companionship that marriage rates for seniors last year hit a 10-year high at 56 percent.

All these indicators, along with more seniors trying dating apps, suggest that cupid will be very busy in 2025.

While the dating scene for seniors offers opportunities, it’s not without challenges, especially for people who have been out of the game for decades.

Dating in the digital age is a good way to meet people but also potentially costly. Americans lost a record $1 billion to romance scams in 2023. Seniors were by far the most targeted age group in such fraud and should never send money to anyone they meet online.

The bedroom has gotten riskier, too, with sexually transmitted infections (STI) more than doubling among seniors between 2000 and 2022.

The cost of a date night has also increased.

With so many variables, Seniorly conducted a study analyzing 12 metrics of data across three main categories in all 50 states and D.C.: Health and well-being (overall health, mental health, life expectancy, and STI rates), family life (marital status, whether seniors live alone or with family, ratio of older women to men, and how engaged they are socially), and financial health (average date-night costs, availability of restaurants, the likelihood of falling prey to romance scams, and spending on memberships and clubs), .

Here’s some of what the study found out: 

  • Number of single seniors and marriage rate soar. The 25.9 million single seniors in America are the most ever – and the marriage rate of 56.3 percent is the highest in 10 years.
  • South Dakota is the No. 1 state for finding love, due to its exceptionally low rate of mental distress among seniors (5 percent), high percentage of older adults in good health (82 percent), and a balanced gender ratio among older adults of 111 women for every 100 men. The rest of the top five states are, in order, Minnesota, Wyoming, Colorado, and New Hampshire.

Washington ranked 29th, supported by a strong life expectancy (11th-best), solid health outcomes (18th-best), and a decent restaurant scene (19th-best) that enhances social opportunities. The state also has a fairly balanced gender ratio and above-average recreational spending. However, the Evergreen State has high STI rates, a high frequency of romance scam victims, and expensive date nights.

  • West Virginia ranked last due to its low life expectancy and poor health outcomes, among other shortcomings.
  • More fish in the sea isn’t always better. The country’s four most populous states ranked in the bottom half overall: No. 30 New York, No. 34 California, No. 40 Florida, and No. 43 Texas. Pennsylvania, the fifth-largest state, ranked 23rd. This suggests that a larger population doesn’t always translate to a better dating pool.
  • States with fewer single seniors tended to score better overall. The ironic twist may reflect stronger long-term relationship stability, better social support networks, and healthier folks – all factors that contribute to a higher quality of life and more favorable rankings.
  • Marriage isn’t just great for romance, but also a key ingredient to a longer and happier life. Married seniors can expect to live longer than their unmarried counterparts, are less likely to be lonely, and tend to be in better health.

While some seniors have sworn off dating, the Census data shows love is in the air. And online. Dating apps aren’t just for the young and restless – older Americans are swiping right, too. In fact, according to the Pew Research Center, 13 percent of adults 65 and older are in on the digital action, and with more than 1,000 online dating platforms out there, seniors looking for love have an overwhelming number of options.

Source: seniorly.com, an online researcher of senior lifestyle trends and information on selecting senior living communities.

NOTE: this can be a sidebar, along with the Social listings from TTD

10 ways to find love

Online dating.

Swipe, chat, spark! Senior-friendly dating apps like eHarmony, OurTime, and SilverSingles can make it easy to jump back into the dating game. Start with a flirty chat, try a video call, and when you’re ready, meet up for that perfect coffee date.

Social Media and online hangouts.

Facebook groups, hobby forums, and virtual book clubs can lead to real-life romance.

Local fun and community events.

Bingo nights, dance classes, and senior socials? Yes, please! Travel groups and cruise adventures can also be full of heartwarming surprises.

Fitness and active lifestyles.

Love might await at yoga classes, walking groups, and pickleball courts. Parks and gyms are the new senior singles scene.

Giving back and volunteering.

Do good, meet good people. Volunteering at charities, hospitals, and community events naturally brings like-minded hearts together.

Senior living and retirement villages.

Home is where the heart is—literally! 55-plus communities offer activities (and chances for romance).

Travel and senior dating cruises.

Adventure + companionship = the perfect match! Cruises, road trips, and group tours set the stage for connections.

Faith and fellowship.

Church groups, Bible studies, and faith-based retreats bring singles together in soulful ways. Bonus: Dating sites such as ChristianMingle and JDate make it even easier.

Second careers and workplace love.

Encore careers and part-time gigs aren’t just for income—they’re for meeting new people, too. Co-working spaces and networking events can spark unexpected romance.

Speed dating and matchmaking.
Senior speed dating? Yes, it’s a thing. Quick chats, big laughs, and maybe even love. For a more curated match, professional services have your back.

Source: seniorly.com